Comfort zones are plush lined coffins. When you stay in your plush lined coffins, you die.
It all changed when I realized I'm not the only one on the planet who's scared. Everyone else is, too. I started asking people, ''Are you scared, too?'' ''You bet your sweet life I am.'' ''Aha, so that's the way it is for you, too.'' We were all in the same boat. That's probably what is so effective at our workshops. When I ask, ''Who else feels like this?'' the whole room of hands goes up. People realize they are not the only one who feels that way.